Now That Nez Iz Calm...

Thanks everyone, for all the concern and loving encouragement. I appreciate it.

Now that I'm not so tired and emotional and upset, let me say a few things about the last post.

I was very tired and emotional the night I wrote that; and, looking back, I made it a bigger deal than it really was. After I had a good night's sleep, I felt just fine and no longer upset.

The basic story is this:

There are two very important men in my life: my boyfriend and my best friend. And for some reason, getting the two of them together in the same place at the same time is extremely difficult. That night there was a chance that it could happen, but it didn't. I was just feeling very disappointed in that and upset that I couldn't make it happen. It's really important to me that these two people get along (and maybe even become friends!) because they are both so very special to me.

And while it still bothers me a bit that I just can't make these get-togethers happen, I shouldn't have been upset at one of them for backing out; it was a legitimate reason. Sometimes, you just can't make it out.

But I shall keep trying. And I shall take your advice and keep expressing myself until he gets it.
And thanks, LizBird, for the funny story, it made me smile. :)
Also, if I ever need a warm beverage and a bitch session, I now have a whole list of people I can call! Thanks!

So that's where I'm at. Again, thanks to all my loving friends for your advice and concern for my well-being. Reading the comments on that last post was like having a big e-hug.

Love! Muah!